Getting him to spend quality time with you is like pulling teeth. He has nothing exciting to share about his life and he goes along with what everyone else thinks and says. His lack of depth is bound to make any woman bored. Instead he works at the mall for two weeks, then goes to the grocery store, then works part time at Home Depot.Having him say yes or no to something is all but impossible but the word maybe is one of the most used words in his vocabulary. Instead, he resorts to pointing the finger at everyone else. And when he is obviously in the wrong, he still finds ways to brush some of the blame off on you or someone else. Since he lacks a steady job, he rarely has a consistent flow of money coming into his pockets.Dating an immature man can be frustrating and plenty annoying.There is nothing worse than spending your time and energy on someone who doesn’t seem to be on the same maturity level as you.He prefers to mooch off of everyone instead of doing things for himself. He prefers to live day-to-day and take thing as they come to him.This guy isn’t worried about his future and could care less about where he goes in life.Your guy lives a carefree life and lives day-to-day. When it comes to making plans and sticking to them, you know that’s simply too much for your guy.
He doesn’t want to dedicate all of his time to something when he prefers to do something else. However, an immature guy has a surface and nothing more.While he has the money to buy new video games every week, he doesn’t have the money to pay his cell phone bill.He has no shame in asking you, his parents, or his boys for money. He’s clueless as to what direction he wants to steer his life in.The scary thing about emotionally unavailable people is how easy it is to be duped by them, and how they don’t always reveal their true colors until you’re already attached.I’ve started to notice the warning signs and steer my direction far away from them in recent years, but if there’s anything I’ve taken away from dating men who couldn’t give me the love and respect I deserved in return, it’s how to put myself first.This is a huge red flag as your relationship with him won’t likely last either.This guy rarely talks about his emotions and feelings for you.He doesn’t worry about money, living a fulfilling life, or working on ways to better impress you. Even if his life depended on it, you know that this guy could not make a decision. The material things in life are one of the top priorities to him.Instead, he always throws the ball back into your court. He’s extremely selfish when it comes to all meanings of the word.He sucks at tipping and is rude to a lot of people.Though he has some money of his own, this guy prefers to be a mooch.