NB: This process cannot be reversed and will completely delete all your details on the site.If you are a subscriber and have time left on your subscription, it will be deleted with your records and cannot be refunded or applied to other (future) profiles.The message is sent to their email address from your username - your real name and email address are never shown.In turn, you may receive messages from other members.Make sure your profile is as complete as possible and that your desired partner details are not too open.For example, if your desired partner is a female aged between 18 and 80 living anywhere in the world matching will not work well for you.Telegraph Dating provides a safe, secure and anonymous way to find and communicate with people of your choice.In a nutshell, you choose a username (a screen name or alias) and set up a profile describing yourself and the type of person and relationship you are looking for.
In search results, you'll find it next to the envelope icon.
You are most probably making your search criteria too narrow. Matches are other members whose profiles meet the criteria you specified in your My Ideal Match page when you set up your profile.
Our matching engine performs two-way matches, so members will only appear in your match list if your profile also meets the criteria they specified for their matches.
Bear in mind that any mail or correspondence you receive through our system will always appear in your profile inbox in the normal way irrespective of which site the sender is a member of.
Please note, for security reasons your log in details will only work on the site you originally joined.